Top 5 Dos and Dont's for Mother of the Bride Dress Styles

Oct 13, 2021

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Mother of the bride's dos and don’ts are essential to a successful wedding. A mother of the bride must be well prepared for her daughter's big day. There are many things that she needs to know about, but there are also certain rules she should follow in order to avoid any awkward situations or mishaps on this very special day. This article will give you an overview of what you need to know as the mother of the bride so that your daughter has a perfect wedding with no worries whatsoever!

Dos: Make sure your dress is properly fitted

A perfect dress needs to be fitted for you. If it's not, the process can lead to unflattering proportions or unnecessary stress on your body that could have been avoided with some professional help from an expert tailor or seamstress. Make sure everything is clean and pressed because these steps are just as important in ensuring a perfect fit. A beautiful gown deserves nothing less than pristine aesthetics; after all, this means one thing: no stains, no snags, and no wrinkles!

Be classy and charming

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Discuss your gown selection with the bride

The mother of the bride should discuss gown selection with the bride because it is important that she not only dress appropriately for this occasion but also reflect her daughter's desires. Mothers are more likely to remember dresses they loved in more recent years, so discussing gown selection would give the mother of the bride an idea of what styles are around now and what colors are popular. Do be mindful of how your outfit affects those around you. Being modest will keep you from looking nosy or rude when asking questions, while not being overbearing on people who don't want to answer them, while dressing for this event.

Check the wedding’s theme

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Be careful not to over-accessorize

A tasteful set of jewelry and a beautiful pair of comfortable wedding shoes will accentuate your dress. But don’t go overboard. Choose jewelry that complements the tone of your dress and your individual style. And make sure you can walk in those heels, it’s a long walk down the aisle and a long day on your feet. You want to be able to dance with your daughter at the reception!

Don’t blend with the wedding colors

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Don’t overlook your daughter’s suggestions

Don’t ignore your daughter’s requests when planning your wedding wardrobe. She will look to you for guidance, so be sure your choices are appropriate. If she requests that you wear a certain style of dress or suggests particular colors, hear her out and try to compromise so you’re both happy with the end result. It is important that the mother of the bride follow her daughter's requests when it comes to what she will wear on her wedding day. The daughter will be the one getting married, so she should have some say in what you wear. You want her to be happy with your dress, and have the time of her life.

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Don’t go searching for your gown too late

Check out our blue mother of the bride dresses collection today. Ideally, you should begin your search for the mother of the bride's gown six to eight months before the wedding date, taking into account any delivery time and tailoring needs. This will give you ample time to find the perfect dress, which you can then try on and look at in various lighting situations. By this point in time, the wedding dress and bridesmaid dresses should be picked out as well so that you can coordinate accordingly. The mother of the bride has many decisions to make when it comes to what she will wear on her daughter's wedding day. White is an important color, but it should be avoided at all costs. Coordinate your outfit with other bridesmaids and avoid being too much in one shade by following colors that complement each other or using similar shades that contrast well with your daughter’s wedding dress.

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FAQs

Q1. Can the mother of the bride wear a patterned dress?

Ans. Yes, subtle patterns and elegant textures are appropriate as long as they complement the wedding theme.

Q2. How early should the mother of the bride start shopping?

Ans. Ideally, shopping should begin six to eight months before the wedding.

Q3. Can the mother of the bride wear pants instead of a dress?

Ans. Yes, tailored pantsuits are appropriate for modern or casual weddings.

Q4. Should the mother of the bride match the bridesmaids?

Ans. No, but her outfit should coordinate with the wedding color palette.

Final thoughts

Choosing the right mother of the bride dress is about balance, coordination, and confidence. By following these dos and don’ts, staying mindful of the wedding theme, and communicating openly with the bride and mother of the groom, you can create a look that feels classic, timeless, and perfectly suited for this once-in-a-lifetime celebration. With the wide range of styles available at The Dress Outlet, finding a flattering and stylish outfit has never been easier.

Mother of the bride dress style guide at a glance

Key consideration	What to keep in mind
Fit and tailoring	Proper tailoring ensures comfort, elegance, and confidence
Wedding theme	Match the formality, venue, and time of day
Color coordination	Complement the wedding palette without blending in
Accessories	Keep jewelry and shoes comfy and balanced
Timing	Start shopping 6–8 months before the wedding

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